What you condemn or admire in others talking about you.
The human psyche seems to have a plan for our imperfections in others, but also our good traits.
Without further we could not know the person they are our mirrors. If you want to know if your hair seem big or if your new coat for you, you take a look in the mirror. You need this mirror to watch your external appearance.
The same account for your inner world. If you want to go see yourself on the inside, looking in the mirror, which is more: the traits you hate in them and
those you love about them. This indicates more about you than you think! In fact, you hate and love these traits you away in your shadow, you've decided you do not want (the negative traits that you condamned as bad or no good), or those you've decided that you turn? t have (the positive traits that you call good and would like to have but you believe you did not).
To see inside of you, look what you dislike in others and what you admire in others. All these traits are energies you away and you need to recover. This is why you trace or draw now in your life.
What we condemn and detest in others are to our own qualities to which we do not want to face, but to which we should work. This is called negative projection. What you do not like in others, or even hate, is a part of yourself.
When the indifference of another person bothers you, it means that you should be more indifferent yourself and stop to invest 100% everywhere and with everyone
% everywhere and with everyone! This does not mean you must become indifferent, cold and distant that the other person, but you should return some of this energy in your own behavior and become less involved in what you are.Too much involvement can hurt you. You must learn in this case to make greater attention to yourself instead of being so focused on the other.
If you are balanced on the polarity of indifference (a tip) and too much involvement (the other) that the indifference of others do worry more. This account for each trait that the trouble you more! You should integrate energy of this trait in your field of energy. This means becoming a little more the other (in this example: any) and become towards yourself (more involved in your own well-being).
When do you start to integrate the behavior that you dislike in others, you will notice that this behavior doesn? t bother you now. You simply do not write more. You have incorporated this energy, so now you become neutral to this matter.
When the aggressive behavior of a partner or colleagues happen, then you may need to learn to say no, defend your land and clearly mark the boundaries.The fact that aggression in the behavior of someone else bothers you, means that you have hidden away this energy in your shadow side. You can take that energy and develop other ways to encourage balance in your life.
This account for each behavior in others that bothers you. It is the fastest way to develop and follow other at the same time!
On a scale of polarities, what you hate is the polarity that you do not have developed in and you should. Shows you that life in the behavior of the other significant. In place of détestant in him or his behavior, you observe, to ask what should learn, learn, you incorporate (become a better person, a person full and complete) and the display of life you show a more balanced person!
In the same way, the good traits you admire in others are your own qualities that you do not know you.You believe you miss these talents together and admire in others. These qualities are present in yourself but they are under construction and also need to develop. They are, however, a mirror image of your capacities higher. This is the positive projection.
Consider a male and a female person you admire and who you know in real. Make a list of qualities and traits that you admire in them. Then read the list again and say to each out very quality: I am ...
Let the word that you admire the elegance and skills for organizing your best friend. This means that you also have the ability to organize your life and things and you are also beautiful, even for otherwise you can not see in other! You have the germ of these qualities within, otherwise you wouldn? t can be noted.
This clearly represents who you are.This is the truth about you. These qualities are inside you. They simply waiting to be discovered, and expressed increased.
You can do the same with people you do not know personally, as the film keeps the stars, singers, historical figures, politicians, figures mythical fairies. Enumerate their qualities and read for yourself: I am ...
In the beginning you may be skeptical, you do not want to think that you have these qualities. But look closer and admit the possibility of having these qualities within yourself as seeds to be cultivated to bloom.
What you do not have within yourself, you can not see in other!